My Son look better in Red

This week im going to put my son's name on this jersey that i brought for him at the start of 08-09 season. How good he looks in this Red jersey. Will post the one with his name after its been done.




How Focus!!!

What Is Best

Dear Jor-El,
If you will one day read back this blog that i have create for you and u finally understand the truth meaning of life. I Want you to know this. Daddy never look at a person of what he is capable of achieving, but what he or she is in the heart. A morally correct person will not say something that is hurting or belittling to other. But he will put every person as a person who he look up to. Unconditionally until other wise. Respect Other as if you like others to respect you. If you have not been respect by others. I think you deserve it. What goes around comes around. No one person will treat u wrongly if you haven't do anything bad to him. You will be asking why there are not much link to other people like other blogs have. I Think those blog some how rather have thing or ideas that i think its not morally correct. Blogging is a tool. It can Help yet it can destroy. I will source until i find what is best for you and the readers of this blog.
Daddy is not a saint either, so I will try to blog as correct as possible. If any readers dont agree with me.. i think this space is not for you. I will rather be love by 1 correct person , then to hated by all. Until your name is up there. Lets Try. Together.

Press ON the Red Devils

Hi there, thou we loss to Liverpool on the Saturday game. But i think its still early to write off any team. Here i am in a Red Devil Colour. Come On and Press on.




To all the Jie jie and Kor Kor, press on for you exam.
My exam is to make mommy and daddy tired.

What Mommy want is the best for you

I think after reading what mommy wrote, all we want is the best for you.. giving you the best of everything we can able to give. Looking at this picture we know that mommy and daddy want you to have the best. But Jor-el its up to you to take it.. we cant force you if you dont want to.
So like daddy students happy studying for your exam.

Falls

That will be the 2nd post for today..
Being a careless mummy, Jor-El had numerous fall. Of course, falls cannot be prevent. But falls from the bed actually can be prevented..

Jor-El had 4 falls from bed before he is 10 months. Before the 10th months, he actually already knows how to crawl down the bed... with slogan by granny "legs come first"...

These falls are unexpected..but can be prevent... think the 3rd month already falls from our (around 70cm) high bed...

Cannot remember the sequence...

there is once, he falls (with head up), actually with prevention of the bloster beside.. but dont know why, he falls, and the bloster still there?!

Another time, think it's the 3rd time, nomally, the moment he sleep, for at least for half an hour he don't move... but that day (mummy thought she can do some laundry before sleep) ...within 10mins he turns, with a big bodysize gap -he can turns and fall...loud knock (chest and face down), then cry in the sleep... After carrying him, he cried awhile and slept.. don't even remember the next morning... having a big smile when he woke up... (then where is daddy? daddy already sleeping - only 9pm - and when he heard me nervously shouting from outside the room he shouted back "what?! what?! what?! " and then back to sleep...)

The last (4th) time (hope it is), he already knows how to hold onto something and walk. Think that day he woke up, didn't see me in the room, then he is coming down from our 'high' bed... but as he is not tall enough to reach the floor... he falls by turning to walk... and there he goes, he falls with the position of "sit and reach" style...

Oh ya, the first time is the worst... he falls from bed while sleeping.. with my dvd charger on the floor.. (think his face knock onto it and has a scare on the face with blueblack)..


Last Saturday, God really bless Jor-El with cushion when he falls with grandma on the road...
grandma had a falls when carrying Jor-El in the night after dinner. Grandma had brushes on kneecap and luckily she can still walk... whereas Jor-El falls head's back on the roadside.. he cried for awhile and we distract him with biscult and falls asleep on the journey back home... Of course we are still worry... luckily we check his head when he is asleep, no red red.. and he is really sleeping... An hour later, he woke up playing with us at home.. and slept at 12midnight... God bless and highly favour him!

Can tell you, maybe Jor-El reading in future.. everytime he falls.. mummy always has heartache.. and always blame herself.. :-(

Is it Too Late? Jor-El is really growing..

Haven't been updating any blog for Jor-El actually cos I really don't know what to write...
Come to think about it...There should be alot of his progess to update instead...
Sorry... mummy been too lazy.. Only until he is now 13 months than mummy starts writing...
What make me wrote today? It's Jor-El of course...

Recently he is sick with cough and fever. Haven't been eating well. Especially he can skip milk for a few days. His normal rountine is 4 hour different with 240ml of milk. During day time, granny will feed him full full (Jor-El only eat well when at granny's place). Whereas, after back home, he will refuse to drink milk before sleep. Even during weekend, Jor-El still refuse to eat (mummy's cooked food) or drink milk.

Last friday, Jor-El only drink twice milk with 1 meal of cereal for the whole day... to be exact, his last milk drink is at 1pm, 3pm ate ceral in between before 6pm, ate some graphs and that's all. He refuse to drink milk before he sleeps. Even next morning, he refuse to drink until Patrick shout at him.

Now both Patrick and I believe that Jor-El listen to granny more than us!!! Whereas, he stick to me more, but like all men, selective hearing ... cos he doesn't respond to my calling... And, he is scare of Patrick when he shout at him. My scolding at him have no respond to him cos he will smile to me when i scold...

Only once.. that's yesterday...
He has been refusing to drink for many times before sleep.. not becos he is very full.. but he just refuse.. I'm angry with him yesterday for that... so, i - being the bad one finally... as Patrick become the good one.. refuse to play or talk to Jor-El during sleeping time when he refuse to drink. I told him "mummy's angry, don't want to talk to you" then i switch-off the room tv and the whole room is dark. And went out to shower, leaving Patrick and Jor-El in the room. (I'm always the one that make him sleep - without Patrick around). So I think Patrick 'talk' to Jor-El saying "mummy's angry, u good boy, have to drink milk milk before sleep..." whatsoever..
When I came back after shower, Jor-El slept at my place (both Jor-El and me sleep together...daddy? the extended bed. hahhaa...) So I tried again, feeding him and he refuse. So I, without playing or "sayang" him, turning my back to him and pretend sleep.

You don't think Jor-El is only thirteen month... he KNOWS!! He knows I'm angry. He sees my back facing him and didn't play, talk to him, he crawled to daddy's bed and sleep with him. Leaving me sleeping on the queen size bed! They both sleep on the singe extended bed!!

Then daddy tell Jor-El he needs to go toilet and blush teeth, leaving the dark room only mummy and Jor-El. Jor-El knows mummy angry, so didn't climb to mummy's side. Instead, he crawled down to the floor and wanted to follow daddy out of the room. But, daddy close the bedroom door, so Jor-El can't get out. Normally, he will find something to play with if the door is close or he is not sleepy yet. But I think he finds insecure in the room with angry mummy... so he stand behind the door trying to open it. When he can't, he falls sitting on the floor and starts weeping.. (he don't normally cry when he falls sitting).. didn't even turn back to look for me... he starts crying even louder... Then daddy came back, carry him to bed... even tell him to "apologise" to mummy, he kepy quite playing blanket on daddy's bed.

When I took out my handphone camera to take picture of him, he thought I want to play with him, happily climb over to my side. I told him off saying "mummy angry, never say want to play with you" than turn my back to him sleeping again... He sit there kept quite... than go back to daddy's bed. Daddy told him to "say sorry" to mummy... He just wouldn't... So daddy just ignore him.

He shared daddy's pillow and sleep over daddy's head... turning and twisting... mummbling... for at least few mins.

So who win eventually? Jor-El lor... who else?
How he won? Mummy finds him pitiful... say "Jor-El come, sleep with mummy..." He turn and jump over my bed and plaster me to sleep.. (whole body stick to me) .. and usually under my armpick for comfort... and turn his face to me smiling... :) I didn't scold him this time... just telling him mummy worry he get hungry at night.. and pet him to sleep... He is really "happily" sleeping beside me having me pet to sleep.. See?! Who win?

After both daddy and Jor-El sleep, mummy went out to watch tv.. (it's finally my OWN time..) so sitting in the living room eating my favorite fruits watching tv for just awhile... heard Jor-El sound.. he cry in his dream...seems complaining... closed his eye and refuse me to change his position of sleep.. (now his head face the living room...think he sees me not in the room... thought i angry again... sleepyly look for me..crying) So.. I switch off the tv and pet him sleep again lor... throughout the night..

Jor-El sure remember what happen the day before... cos it's not the first time he woke up never smile... previously, when us, a few adult 'complaining' how 'smart' are our kid.. he woke up the next day not even a eye contact, big hug and kisses ... and throw his milk bottle and my handphone down the bed... (7th Aug 08 - 2 days before celebrating his birthday)

This morning, mummy woke up first (sometime Jor-El).. having myself prepare to get ready for work... he woke up opening his big big eye looking at me... never smile like usual... just woke up and crawled down the bed... so mummy says "come, mummy big hug" at the end of the bed... he comes over and hug (maybe lost control and almost fell down... who knows?) ... but still, never want to smile to mummy... Didn't want to change, initially refuse to drink... but later.. drank 2 round... total of 320ml..

Luckily, he is still ok after we left home for granny house.. Been behaving in the bus, hugging mummy's chest for 'Yang Or ing" then walk in the train station.. and sit on a seat himself... eating biscult...

But STILL.. never want to wave 'goodbye' to mummy when auntie Citi came carrying him away... from the control station...