What's the feeling like of having one of Your own?

Hi there all,
I think it been some time that i have posted. Being a father for the first time, time is no longer by our side now. Its very much for work and taking care of him, our future. But today i feel like speaking my view, of looking kids now a days, when i have one of mine own. What kind of views i have change since his arrival.
Being working in a training of the young ones.. as a trainer we will meet different kind of students, smart ones, kind hearted ones, soft spoken ones, energetic ones, friendly ones. etc etc.. to me i have never seen them as clever or stupid. i have never raise my voice and call them idiot. cause i believe god bring them to this earth its for a reason.. for what i think only he will know..
But this few day. i start thinking what if my son if not behaving in school and was being punish by the school teachers, what should i do?? scold him cane him? or go complaint to the school or even MOE.. what should i do?

For now, its being a trend that the student asking parents to school to complain about a certain teacher, or trainer about the things they dont feel justify. I have my experience of it when a student told me not to touch him or else he complaint to his mother to complaint to moe. when parents start doing so.. that are we trying teaching our sons? what values are we teaching them.. saying that there is a higher authorities that can supersede what ones decision is for doing that to a student.
But im not saying that all teachers will always be correct. we are not. cause we have emo. we will burst out some time unfairly, i did that before. What im trying to say is.. we should not use complaining as a tool to get back to the teachers. that is never my way of doing.. wat i will do is i will work double hard for his or her lesson.. i will ask my friends to give me tution to get the 1 in his class. to show him what im worth .. not a useless.. that i can use a neg force and change it to s positive one. if i just teach him how to complain.. i'll will be just teaching him to hide from their mistake. being a momma's boy.
i think i already have my answer. i will work hard with my son. to show all the people who are trying to put us down due the their ego. to show them wat's our worth. We will not do easily.. we will prove to the them. We do not need to get the results straight away.. but at the end who got the last laugh. by experience.. by the time a reach there.. and shown them. the anger towards them are already gone.. That's education. that's teaching them values.